The Edgewater Park Reporters response to blog comments;
We still held out publishing the information even after receiving a copy of the public record and additional conformation from sources with knowledge of this affair.
We decided to go forward when the picture and story about the subject child was published in the June edition of the Beverly Bee.
The overwhelming purpose for publishing was the fact that Mr. Daly did not take responsibility for his child. Mr Daly's choice in violating his marriage vows is not any ones business except for his family, himself and the person with whom he is carrying on the affair with. This changed when he refused to take responsibility for the child that was the consequence of the affair. This refusal brought his actions into the public domain when he elected not to pay the child support as ordered by the courts.
The mother of this child has borne the total responsibility for this child to date, so she was left with no choice but to take the actions she did to insure that this child receives the support from his father that he rightly is entitled to.
Mr. Daly's actions showed that he didn't worry about how the outcome of having an affair could effect his family or the mother and child of this affair.
If he had done the right thing and taken the financial responsibility upon learning of the pregnancy, none of this would have been a public story. His refusal to take responsibility now has caused much embarrassment, hurt and anxiety for both families.
We all make mistakes in life, but we are measured by how we take responsibility for those mistakes. Mr Daly let his family and his new son down with how he handled his mistake. Don't blame the mother, or us for the actions he elected to take and then excepting the 2010 Edgewater Park Citizen of The Year award knowing he violated his marriage and was refusing to except the financial responsibility for his out-of-wedlock son.
Just remember the child is now without a father to raise him. Too many of our children are in the same situation today and probably are the causes of the societal problems we face.
The Edgewater Park Reporters 6/15/11
Below is the original story posted 6/13/11
The following are copies of emails we received concerning Jim Daly and his failure to pay for Child Support for his son. We were reluctant to publish this correspondence at the time because of the lack of a Court Order backing up the accusations in the emails. We now feel that the information should be made available to the taxpaying public.
Sent: Mon, February 7, 2011 2:33:17 PM
Subject: Jim Daly
Jim Daly as Edgewater Park Citizen of the Year is a joke. He has not paid child support or visited son number four born 10-9-10. As of 2-7-10, Jim owes back child support in the amount of $3,555.00. His wages at the emergency squad have been garnished by the court. Jim is a deadbeat dad. Some citizen to be honored!
On Mon, Feb 7, 2011 at 5:24 PM, EdgewaterPark Reporter <edgewaterparkreporter@yahoo.com> wrote:
Elizabeth, do you want this comment posted on the site. If so we will need the court case number so that the facts can be checked out.
The Edgewater Park Reporter
To: EdgewaterPark Reporter <edgewaterparkreporter@yahoo.com>
Sent: Mon, February 28, 2011 4:05:47 PM
Subject: Re: Jim Daly
I have attached the most recent Child Support tally....Mr. Daly now owes over $4,000 in child support. Please e-mail me regarding this information.
Thank you
Custodial Parent:
NonCustodial Parent:
ELIZABETH A HAWS
NonCustodial Parent:
JAMES DALY
| Case Number: CS90188434A | Arrears: $4,266.00 | |
Obligation
The amount of child and/or spousal support a Non Custodial Parent/Obligor is ordered to pay.
| Debt Type Description | Obligation Amount | Arrears Obligation | Frequency | Next Charge Date |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| CHILD SUPPORT | $237.00 | $13.00 | WEEKLY | Mar. 03, 2011 |
On Mon, Feb 28, 2011 at 8:46 PM, EdgewaterPark Reporter <edgewaterparkreporter@yahoo.com> wrote:
Thank you for this link. We are still unable to post the information because the Jim Daly listed does not give an address to confirm that the Jim Daly in the report is actually the Jim Daly from E. Franklin Ave in Edgewater Park, If you do a web search on Jim Daly you get lots of hits for Burlington County and NJ. We hesitate to post this information without seeing the public court documents for this case. If you can provide this information as a pdf file or send us a link, we can know that the information is correct and is a public document.
The Edgewater Park Reporters
To: EdgewaterPark Reporter <edgewaterparkreporter@yahoo.com>
Sent: Mon, March 7, 2011 10:07:19 AM
Subject: Re: Jim Daly
Please let me know that you have received and can open the document I sent. Thank you!
CFT
To: EdgewaterPark Reporter <edgewaterparkreporter@yahoo.com>
Sent: Mon, March 7, 2011 10:07:19 AM
Subject: Re: Jim Daly
Please let me know that you have received and can open the document I sent. Thank you!
CFT
Hello,
The order is signed & dated by the judge (second page). Additionally, I've attached the original complaint in this matter containing his address.
If you'd like to check out the order yourself, feel free to do so. The case number is on the document.
His correct marriage status has been corrected by the court as well as his ACTUAL workplace. His workplace has been served with the documents. Call Jim to confirm!
I'm willing to exhaust all efforts (including, but not limited to, pulling tax refunds and revoking his state EMT & mortuary licenses) before he is arrested. I'm working with the court probation dept. diligently in this matter.
Let me know that this new document is received. Thank you.
CFT
We were reluctant to post this information when we were first contacted but with the picture and story that appeared on page 22 of the Beverly Bee June 2011 edition titled "Local Child Star", we felt that the public should be aware of Mr. Daly's avoidance of paying child support.
Mr. Daly is a paid member of the Edgewater Park Sewer Authority and appointed to that position by the Edgewater Park Township Committee and is the Paid Chief of the Beverly-Edgewater Park Emergency Squad that is supported with Taxpayers money as well as a former Township Committeeman and Mayor for Edgewater Park, has shown a disregard of his responsibilities as a father of his child. The Edgewater Park Township Committee has made a mockery of this responsibility by proclaiming him the 2010 Citizen Of The Year knowing that a court order was issued for the payment of Child Support. You have to question the rationale of the township committee in giving this award to Mr. Daly knowing of that he was a dead beat dad ignoring his responsibilities to his child. No wonder our township is in the shape that it is.
The Edgewater Park Reporters
54 comments:
There are few things more volatile than a woman scorned.
WOW! Not picking on LC for a change....how about that? Not sure what this makes JD. A dead beat I supposee but your fearless leader who started this trash blog was a bigger deadbeat though wasn't he? Isn't that right Mr BD Sheriff sale? ANYWAYYYYYYYYY... We always knew you idiots were the lowest of the low, a bunch of cowards hiding anonymously behind this simple blog. You are just complainers, do nothings, mud slingers and trash talkers looking for revenge on whomever it is you fools feel threatenend by. Beyond a shadow of doubt this proves just how low you will go. We are more than sure you would throw you mother under a bus if you thought it would help your helpless "cause". Don't forget what comes around goes around. BD got his. (wasn't Cottage ave nice Bob?) BG's anger killed him so guess that's some kind of poetic justice huh? Guess you fools that are left will get yours too eventually! HAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHHA and once again we will laugh last!
Instead of Weinergate we have Dalygate. Deny deny deny. I guess the courts got it all wrong. Did he man-up and pay-up? Good example for our young people to lookup to.
I know both parties in this case since I was very young, although I haven't had contact with either for a while. Although he, being married should never have had relations with her, she also should have known better. While trying to make an ass of him, she is making an Even Bigger Ass of herself by going public with all of it! Shame on you Ms. Haws for having a relationship that would have gone nowhere in the first place & for bringing a child into it in the second place. You don't deserve to be a mother. You are a homewrecker and a gold-digger. Jim isn't inmocent in any way & should take responsibility. But, Ms. Haws You have Always expected Everything to go your way & now that it hasn't you are throwing a Lizzie-Fit!
to take 1 guess...
you are right about all the people involved with this blog but that doesn't change Jim Daly's issue one bit He isn't making his obligations!
Why did you post this on the Happenings site. What do you and you and your friends gain by the post. It is time you close down. You should be ashamed of yourself.
That's what happens when you sleep with a married man. Did you ever think of how his wife and other children would feel?? He is irresponsible, a liar and a cheat.
She is not a woman scorned. She is a woman who didn't get her way... From a woman's perspective: When a woman in her 40's has relations with a married man, she should be willing to take on any responsibilities that arise from such an affair. If she is not willing and/or able to do so, then I guess she should have thought of that before she had said relations. This is not to say in any way that Mr. Daly isn't wrong as well and should not be held responsible; but for her to slam him publicly only shows her true colors as well. She needs to think of his other children and his wife. My heart goes out to them for they, too, are being dragged through the mud in all of this. Ms. Haws, you are an educated woman. Grow up! Take care of your child & stop making this such a public spectacle. What are you going to tell your child when he is older?? This will be forever in cyberspace & he will one day find out about all of it.
Webmaster why not just take this story down all you are doing is hurting people, is this the way you get your kicks????
My oh my, from the comments you would think Mr. Daly is the victim. You morons, the victims are the child and Jim's family. He was the one who cheated on his wife and couldn't keep it in his pants. That wasn't the act of someone who should have been selected as Citizen of the Year and what balls Mr. Jim had by accepting it knowing that he was in arrears with child support for his 'peccadillos'. No wonder EP and Beverly are going down the tubes, look at who they elect to office.
When you make a kid outside a marriage, you deserve the fallout but when you don't take responsibility for the kid then you are a lowlife!! Ms. H was only trying to get the (man?) to do his duty for his child because he (Jim) was hiding from this responsibility.
He should have been paying, let it go to the courts. Do you have to trag in the mud
was there a paternity test done to prove that this in fact is his child?
Say Anonymous 6-15 12:59 bimbo, what part of the Court Order don't you understand. You sound just like Jim pretending like he isn't the father. You should have shown up for the court hearing.
I hope some one finds something on you, so your name can be plaster all over the internet. Take the post off, close down the site.
What a short memory Anonymous 2:20 pm. You must think that it is ok for you but not when you are the subject (remember).
how can he deny it? if the results prove that he is the father, what is there to deny? how long is this going to go on? he can't hide forever
Yes the children without fathers in the home is a big problem in our society. So many children do not have the benefit of the "Dad" being around. Many of our "finest" citizens have the same situation in their very own families. What was that story about glass houses and throwing stones? Is Jim Daly the ONLY deadbeat dad in town? Please let us know of all the others too.
Jim, you needed to talk to the King of Beverly, he knows how you do it without fertilizing his honey and getting caught. i hope this didn't happen in the back of the ambulance.
What is the difference between Jim and Arnold. Jim you are not a Kennedy politician, only an Irish one.
You can put up all the disclaimers you want about WHY you published this story, but in trying to hurt Jim Daly, you've only caused MORE pain to his wife and other children. Did you bother to think about that? No, of course not. And if you did, you just didn't care.
How many people do you suppose knew about his indiscretion? Certainly not as many that know about it now. Now you're making his family relive the whole situation in a MUCH MORE public way. What has is WIFE or his CHILDREN ever done to you so that you feel that you have to open up this wound again, and make them relive everything all over again?
This post just goes to prove that you don't care WHO you hurt or what INNOCENTS you hurt in the process of trying to make others look bad. You're vile, selfish and mean spirited.
And besides which, if you have unprotected sex, chances are good that you're going to make a baby. That's what sex is actually about. Obviously he wasn't taking precautions. Why wasn't she? She was having an affair with a man who was not willing to leave his family for her. Did she think that bringing a baby in to the picture would change things?
Shame on Jim Daly for his indiscretion. Shame on the other woman for making this a much more public matter. Shame on you for posting this.
My heart goes out to the family.
Anonymous 10:45. Well said, the web master has lost sight of the purpose for which it was started.
The only person that made Jim's family suffer was JIM! Your hart should also go out for the child of his unfaithfulness and demand that Jim own up to to his financial court ordered responsibilities for this child who will never have a father at home. I can't believe you are defending this scum bag! He made it public when he didn't pay his court ordered child support and additionally consider this; our tax dollars are paying his salary, health benefits and state pension while he ignores his child. What kind of man is he? Answer that Anonymous nitwit.
Go back and read again. You emotions have apparently gotten the better of you. I did NOT defend him. I said "Shame on him."
So before you go calling people "nitwit" perhaps you should make sure you realize you understand what it is that you're reading.
You are a nitwit, because you blame everyone else except the scumbag. Personaly I think he should resign from the sewer authorty like Weiner. He should have his weiner where it belonged.
I want to remind Daly about the time he stood across the street with his number one son and yelled racist at his political opponents when they were campaigning door to door and the home owner was an African American. What a nice guy and yes there is plenty more on the guy if you want to check his history.
Just like on "Dragnet", Sgt Joe Friday says "Just the facts, Ma'am"... In this case the facts point to a man who fathered a child while married and having an affair... This happens all the time... The problem is that Mr Daly does not want to accept any emotional or financial responsibility for the child. This is a clear indicator of a man in denial and not wanting to accept his responsibilities, a sick, immature, selfish human that should not be elevated to some half ass Edgewater Park NJ award... If anything he should get the award framed and kick back and look at it with his family and say he is giving it back which would make it available to another unworthy lothario, and as usual get counseling and rehab, by his own actions he has destroyed families...and the dissemination of his actions is only secondary and brought on himself[now Jim dont confuse dissemination with insemination, which you are good at] think that one over as you ponder how much you have to pay in child support, health benefits and education possibly all the way to college, wow, that's a lot of money, you may need another government job or start freelancing embalming, good luck Jim, you screwed up your life by trying the easy way out, not to mention the domino effect on the people involved
Happy Fathers Day Jim!
You can try to justify your actions but it is no more believable than anything else you post. You can try to make us believe the you agonized with this so called responsibility to let people know but in fact we already know you revel in it. You are in this to hurt people and make a buck and nothing more. We see right through you and when you were called a bunch of A-holes a more fitting name could not be found. Again we remind you what goes around will come around we will see to it! You bunch of trailer trash assholes! And gee Doc clean your yard and better keep an eye on your truck too.....just saying. Hey is that thing regesterd? Maybe you have friends in high places you two faced fool!
Oh my Doc, you have been threatened by a supporter of DEAD BEAT FATHERS and PHONY BOMB THREAT CALLERS! You better call the Good Old Boy Public Safety Director and see if he can investigate like he did for The King's Con Job. Say DEAD BEAT DAD SUPPORTER, if you want to see what ASS HOLES look like, come to a City Council or Township Committee Meeting. They sit at the dais.
Can someone please explain to my why you the Edgewater Park reporter is writing this story, she has gone to court, why put it all over the internet. Why not check all the court records and go after all the dead beat dads.
Mr/Ms Anonymous 6/22 9:42 am; Are you that stupid to ask why? He didn't pay his child support but had the balls to accept the Citizen of the Year Award knowing he was a DEAD BEAT DAD. Gee did you know that fact because it sure wasn't in the BCT or the Bee was it. Maybe now he will start paying his Court Mandated Child Support. We can only hope and just one additional comment, he also is being paid by the Tax Payers of Edgewater Park and Beverly.
You are so narrow minded you think when we call you what you are. (That would be an asshole if you had forgotten) That we are sticking up for JD. You really aren't to bright are you?
I did not ask why he did not pay child support, why put on this rag site. It must have been started by a Republican trouble maker.
What does politics have to do with not paying child support and the fact he didn't pay it and the fact he is being paid by the taxpayers, it should be published! Talk about being narrow minded!
I wish all "Dead Beat Dads" got this kind of attention.
Gee you are sooooo right anony-mouse June 24, 2011 11:32 AM because "inquiring minds want to know" right? ..and yea "guess" person. Just like when you say something back to the reporters about Beverly. Then everyone is LC. hahahahahahahahahahahaha!!!
Maybe JD is a dead beat dad right now but the reporters are just plain dirt bags! JD can change his status but you guys NEVER will!
Do you think that is time to take down all this old, old news?????
CLARIFICATION AS SOMEONE CLOSE TO THE CASE: 1) IT WAS IN THE BEVERLY BEE, 2) THE INFORMATION IS PUBLIC, 3) MR. DALY WAS GIVEN AMPLE TIME TO OWN UP TO HIS RESPONSIBILITIES AND REFUSED TO, 4) MR. DALY HAS YET TO EVEN VISIT HIS NEW SON, EVEN AT THE URGING OF THE COURT, 5) THE MOTHER HAS NO INTENTIONS OF HURTING HIS FAMILY, SHE'S THE ONE WHO TOLD HIS WIFE THIS HERSELF (SINCE MR. DALY REFUSED TO DO IT HIMSELF) 6) MR. DALY HAS NOT ATTENDED ANY OF THE 4+ COURT APPEARANCES. THE MOTHER HAS BEEN AT ALL OF THEM IN AN ATTEMPT TO REASONABLY WORK THIS OUT WITH MR. DALY (AND ATTEMPTED TO WORK THE SITUATION OUT PRIVATELY WITH MR. DALY AND MR. DALY REFUSED TO DO SO), 7) THESE ARE ALL GOOD PEOPLE WHO NEED TO WORK WITH ONE ANOTHER FOR THE BENEFIT OF ALL THE INNOCENT CHILDREN. OPENNESS WITH EACH OTHER IS THE KEY TO FINDING A SOLUTION FOR EVERYONE.
to anonymous July 5, 2011 2:26 PM
Yopu want us to believe that you accusations a speculations are true but in fact you have no proof of what you state. Just your "word". Which frankly isn't worth beans. In fact you don't even have a name. Maybe you are that stupid but we are not.
to anonymous July 5, 2011 2:26 PM Would you please do us all a favor and take a spelling/grammar refresher course. So, any one know if he has paid up yet?
As of 6-15-11, Mr. Daly has a revoked driver's license and an active bench warrant. As of today, he currently owes $6,824 in child support. The mother is the child's sole support at this time. If Mr. Daly begins to develop a relationship with his child, all information supplied to this website will cease. A "gold digger" as (some claim she is) goes after gold. Mr. Daly has no such riches. His time and support for his son is all that has been asked of him. All the parties need to be self-less not selfish.
To the most stupid English tudor... We can see you have no work in that field. We see 3 mistakes. Hit an extra key in the word you, a dropped r in the word your. Also a in place of what is clear to most of us the letter a instead of the word and. We are sorry you are to stupid to understand those things and are confused between typo's and spelling/grammer issues. But since you apparently can't add anything of any value to the topic at hand. I guess that is all you have.....IDIOT!
JD assumed all responsibility for his son and intended to be in his life. The, Karen (his wife) became involved. She put a stop to all and any communication and support. Karen is totally responsible for JD being a dead-beat dad. Men stray and lie - not a myth - JD is not the first. JD is a basicly a good, decent guy - until wifey poo put the brakes on. Now Liz is a villian - not so. When she found JD to be home and not seperated pending divorce, she dropped him immediately. Only 3 months later to find the rabbit died. So, JD was notified. All support and involvement settled quietly. Then came Karen - she is to blame for all the bad press, etc. Now, for the rest of the story, just ask...
Very well said Joe S. Rag! I doubt that you will get any questions as no one is really interested in the truth that has to do with this blog. So on that thought aren't the reporters really the ones to blame for this trash? Yes I do think so!
what do you expect, his wife welcome them with open arms. Why not just clean up the site, or find a new person to drag in the mud.
Jim got arrested and got his name in the paper again.
When was it in the paper??
It is in the BCT today sect B, page 3, bottom left.
OK, he paid up, and was released, can you stop it already.
Gee Anonymous, I thought you said that the EPR was making the story about Jim being a dead beat dad up. Looks like the EPR got it right and now you just want the story to go away? I have to wonder if he will make his future child support payments on time or will he go back to his old ways. Again Anonymous the EPR got it right so maby you should make sure that Jim makes good on his future child support payments.
this whole blog is a complete joke. people make mistakes. nobody in that affair is innocent, of course, but nobody can be more wrong then this site for posting it for all to see. did we all of a sudden enter the middle ages where you put a thief on display? grow up, people. by posting this, you show that evolution has barely touched us. Mr, Daly did wrong by having an affair, yes, but the mother of the child should have known what she was getting into. first of all, you are a GROWN woman. is this what you want to teach the beautiful baby who did nothing but come into this world? what will you tell him when he is all grown up and sees that his mother made a huge fuss because she couldnt get what she wanted. Mr. Daly, how can you not own up to YOUR child? I think everyone on here forgets about the CHILDREN and Mr. Daly's poor wife. Nobody on here can understand or comfort them in this by posting it for their friends and family to see. its like rubbing the fact in their face. they will NEVER forget this and thanks to all of you neither will the locals. If anyone has done the worst offence in all of this, I believe that it is all of you for writing about it and not having a heart. thanks for proving that some people cant show compassion and obviously dont have a heart. my complete heart goes out do you, Daly family, and to the little baby who might never live this disgrace down.
All his children have to live with the knowledge of Jim's actions - not just the infant. With BOTH parent's love and support, each child will find their own path and happiness. Sins of the father, are just that, sins of the father. Jim has yet to visit his newborn or act like his father. Time to see a priest for some guidance Jim.
Post a Comment